Effort……….one hope

Hey friends! Hope everyone is in high spirits.

Effort, an indispensable part of our life, without which we can’t even think of doing anything. The major thing to mesmerize is that whether we are actually putting our effort in the right direction and in the constructive way or not.

Many a times we have realised that in order to do our best we often hurt ourselves and go out of the way to please others. This practice not only leaves us exhausted but also leaves us with the hopeless thoughts. Many a times we are carried away by other’s perspective and fail to see our own as we feel not very confident about ourselves. Anyhow I feel that whatever we do keeping in mind the good of others too will definitely gives us positive energy and self satisfaction. It is rightly said that there is a law of universe which believes in good qualities and respect for others too. So putting your whole -hearted effort in right direction without doubt and without harming others definitely brings good results. We should always remember that if we do not gain any monetary benefit from our efforts but we gain experience by going through the process which enriches our life with learning and gratitude.

let’s Ponder

Great are those who have the cosmic instinct

honoured are those who cares and are distinct

Never ever think that the world is mean

since you might be desperate and at times keen

Finding new ways will open a new door

don’t judge yourself and thoroughly explore

Letting things go will always help

leave everything, relax and don’t sulk

Each life is precious never forget

leave grudges behind and never regret

Everyone around is a well wisher just accept

world is a beautiful place and it reflects

There can be times when you could be doubtful

stay always positive and play heartful

Great are the ways of God you must know

be grateful and don’t forget to grow

Slowly and gradually the path will be clear

keep your plans healthy and dear

God’s wishes and blessings are always there

keep yourself open and absolutely fair.


Change matters….

How many times we have thought that we will do our best and help everyone at the time of need. Yes, indeed we think this on daily basis and try to do our best for the people around us. But in the hustle and bustle of life we literally forget at times the most important aspects of our life that is meeting our friends specially those in need. Let us religiously see and note who need us and for whom we can be readily available. I understand that we are so much caught up in our own families that we find it extremely difficult to find out time for others but let us be little selfish for the satisfaction of our own soul and take out time for others in need.

Recently my good friend passed away and I still cannot answer myself that why I did not visit her frequently. I really feel so sorry about myself that I could have visited her often and could have spent more and more time with her. There was so much to learn from her and so much to share. But I am helpless and too regretful but all in vain now. So dear friends try to take out sometime for the near and dear ones, look around yourself, show your belongingness and do something useful in life till it is too late to act as our little awareness towards each other can save us from long life regret.

love you all.

Wake up and see

Time passes and days roll over

happenings are bizarre and slower

You never know what is in store

Grief or blessings galore

let’s do best of our effort

by leaving away our comfort

days are passing and life is short

stop judging and do your part

Highly amazing are God’s ways

so don’t let pass the blessings astray

we know not what is lying ahead

so get up, work and let love spread

immense are God’s bounties to enjoy

let’s realize and do not welcome annoy

wake up and don’t get too late

share and enjoy what is served in plate

Hard-work, sharing and meditation is the key

those who did know the mystery

so why O’ soul you are confused

just believe what happens it happens for the good.


Remembering my Grand-Father

Since childhood I saw my maternal grandpa whom we called Papajee with affection as a strong and incredible personality. He, with his positive aura and immense energy was our hero. His voice modulation and firmness of authority used to scare us but inside he was really a soft human being . I still remember my childhood when I along-with my parents used to pay him visits. The visits were so frequent that their place became our second home.

Grand-parents are the most affectionate people on the earth we all know . My elder brother and I shared a strong bond with him . Undoubtfully my younger siblings shared the same too but both of us were the more principled ones. We too got the opportunity maximum number of times to be with him . We used to be with him whenever vacations were there. Our parents used to drop us there and we used to have a pampered time there.

My grandma was also a gem of a person who used to cook a lot of food for us . Life with them was just eating food , merry making and so on. I still remember the days when we used to get an everyday treat from a local ice-cream vendor who used to ring a bell on his arrival.

I always saw my Grandfather working . He took his last breath when he was 96. But all those years he had put a lot of hard-work along with his heart and soul. He got retirement from his railway job at the age of 60. He started working voluntarily after 60 and worked till 80 which is highly commendable. After 80 years of age he led a healthy life and at that age he was still able to manage a good life. It was only at the age of 94 he was unable to walk properly and slowed down but his will power and strength remained undeterred. I used to be amazed at times how he managed to do all that. Last year I paid him frequent visits after he suffered a heart attack and doctor’s declared that his heart was just 35% in working condition. He shared his experiences of 1947 India-Pakistan partition and other experiences which were too inspiring and also gave goosebumps. I really felt like saluting him as he was a symbol of values, love and kindness.

I pray to God to give his soul rest and keep us all on the path of wisdom shown by him.


Our loving Parjai (sister in law in Punjabi language)

Parjai you are a slim beauty

who did her best to do her duty

You are always on the run🤣

and at times gives us much fun

You do your best to feel everyone at home

which motivated me to write this poem

You brought luck and charm to the house

and proved yourself to be a wonderful spouse

No doubt you deserve the best

forget everything and take the rest

We all pray for your good health

May God shower all his wealth

I remember and cherish the memories

forgeting all the un-necessary worries

Our brother is lucky to have

We also pray and thank you

We all wish for all the happiness

and also forget our silly feverishness

May you be spiritually enlightened

and your dreams be always heightened

Praying God for your long and healthy life

to keep all of us on your loving side.

Gratitude and loads of love on your birthday❤😍🌹🎁🎉🌹

love and blessings💕

My Dad….My Hero

Today is my father’s birthday.

Dad, a word which is a world itself and a true reflection of love, care and sublime serenity. Though my dad left for heavenly abode 25 years back but I still feel his presence always around me. There is an unheard and unsaid strength which is always surrounding me at all times. My father was a man of immense politeness and a man of few words. His presence used to say it all. His energy and his aura was so full of love that reflects in his personality. I have always seen him engrossed in gathering knowledge from all the possible and available sources. Though there was no technology at that point of time but he always made sure to keep himself updated. He had various subscriptions of various libraries and was a lover of theatre too. I remember he used to take us to various auditoriums to enjoy the cultural activities, plays and dramas. He had a special love for literature and his collection of books on subjects like Literature and religion was immense. Newspaper was the most reliable source of information at that time and I still remember that he used to keep all the newspapers date-wise above his almirah beautifully and systematically. We would ask the date and we would be able to get the same of that particular date.

He was a born talent. He was born in the family of farmers. It was a huge family of six brothers and three sisters where it was nearly impossible to think of being literate as the parents were not literate enough. But he was a man of strong will power and destined his own ways who did a lot of effort to outshine by doing his best in studies and literally worked a lot and hard. He used to sit under street lamps to study and walk miles and miles to reach the school. His unending thirst to achieve knowledge has given him strength and he was able to do good in studies and kept on working hard to achieve his goals and wanted to be a lecturer. He came to Delhi from Punjab and started his journey by joining as assistant in LIC of India. During his job only he acquired various degrees like law and master’s degrees. In his last days he was working as a Legal Advisor. It is really hard to even imagine that how he did all that with a full time job and hell lot of responsibilities of family and kids. We are four siblings and we had always seen him studying and working hard. I think he did his level best in the time span of his life which he could do. Imagining doing the same is too difficult but I really wish that if I could just be like him even a bit.

We all miss him and will remain doing so till eternity. Love you dad❤


Live…… at least

At the cost of anything do not give up on yourself. It is obvious that our past haunts us and don’t let us be ourselves. It is equally difficult to forget our bitter experiences as these keep haunting one by one. But I think it is not at all worth to keep on clinging to them. Though this sounds too difficult to follow and generally gives us hard days but what is the point? I feel practicing happy thoughts on daily basis and healthy conversations let us do our best.

Start by thinking of what you actually like. We know everyone like to pamper themselves in one or the other way but we are so engrossed in our negative world and harm ourselves so much that we kill the urge to think optimistically. So, the best way is to start self care and to pamper yourself. This will not only give you confidence but will also help you think in a better way. The people around will carry on their practices but you as wonderful individual love and care yourself first. Once you start feeling good about yourself you will definitely feel good around you. Love, celebrate, laugh, smile, observe, learn and live life to the fullest.

Let’s find ourselves.

As we all listen and say, Life is too short to spend time on grudges and conflicts, but what about the inner conflict which keeps on haunting you when you are actually disturbed by outward forces or circumstances. In order to get yourself heard why one has to go through all the turmoil. Your own near and dear ones are the people who gives you un-necessary disturbance and are not ready to listen. Even the things which should be understood on its own is at times too difficult to be understood. I think the difference lies in one’s mental level and level of understanding. It is observed that the people who bother you in life they don’t leave any stone un-turned to bring you down to their level. The stress robs away your peace and lowers your productivity for sure. So what should be done? What should be practiced and what should be adopted to deal with these kind of people? Day in and day out you are staying and struggling with them. At times I feel it is a real sorry state which literally steals your enthusiasm and throws you in a jungle of mess, doubts, judgements and at times hostility of thoughts and emotions. When I feel the same I realize that I feel like writing, reading, cleaning and doing stuff which gives me joy and liberate me. Anyhow I try to keep myself awake of these situations but at times I do fall pray of these circumstances and react but I feel that it is taking toll on my health. So I try and persuade myself to be a better human being and try not to retaliate and try to act later. The later action has given me good results and I felt that reaction and retaliation made my health worse. So let us all take good care of our mental health by indulging in various activities which provides solace and serenity.

An initiative to educate

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Dear all

Being an English teacher I always have the urge to teach English and help people to be fluent in English Grammar, composition and conversation. I feel that everyone should be well equipped in the language which is universally accepted and widely spoken. I think a person who is well versed in English language and have a good command over it will be able to achieve much in today’s technological world. So in order to achieve the same I have initiated to teach English language and conversation. I shall be starting with basic English Grammar like Vowels and Consonants and the phonic sounds which will help in the clear pronunciation too. I hope I shall be able to benefit many in the process. Those who are interested please do respond surely so that I could share my Zoom id with you along with the class timings. There are no specific charges for the same and whatever you are able to contribute will be highly appreciated.

Looking forward for a positive response.

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